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And so it begins... [Aug. 18th, 2008|06:12 pm]
[mood | annoyed]
[music |You Move Me - Rick Astley]

Well, here we go. Hubby just called. Apparently the mall owners are in a conference, deciding whether or not to close the mall. He went and walked around, and a ton of stores have already shut down and closed anyways.

We've got extra batteries, extra water, flashlights, candles, and a battery-operated radio. Odds are we won't need any of it. But hey, it's called being prepared. Meanwhile, I'm jamming to those Eze clips that leaked, and am loving what I'm hearing. "Sexy Boots", indeed! Now...can we get the guys to do drag again, hm??

ETA-- 6:28pm - Mall will be closing at 7pm, he'll be home as soon as the pretzel stand is closed up, Dyana is bringing him home.
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Fay, Fay, go away!! [Aug. 17th, 2008|01:33 pm]
[mood | annoyed]
[music |watching streaming vids on CNN.com]

We're SUPPOSED to be getting the rest of our stuff from the house on Tuesday. Guess what? Tropical storm/almost a hurricane Fay is landing then. *headdesk*

The move has been postponed, we're watching and waiting to see if we have to evacuate...and I may not even have power by tomorrow, depending on when the storm hits and how strong it is. I will try and keep everyone updated, send good vibes our way please!

Fay, you can go away anytime now, thanks. :)
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Moving in reverse and without a car... [Aug. 14th, 2008|10:39 am]
[mood | accomplished]
[music |One - Automatic Baby (REM & U2)]

I do believe Will and I must be out of our minds... we moved last night to the duplex. All of our stuff, cats included, is still at the house however.

Our car decided to go and die on us over the weekend, and a $200 repair later, it STILL wasn't fixed. Hubby missed two days of work, and his job was suddenly on the line as he didnt have transportation, so we cut a deal with our new landlord and took emergency possession last night. We shipped the boy off to his grandparents for oh, the next week, loaded the kitties up with food and water, and then threw a few things (AND THE COMPUTER!!!) into the broken-down, virtually undriveable car and came here. We are now within walking distance of the mall (and his job!!), 3 shopping plazas, a handful of restaurants, and a CVS.

The status of the duplex? The computer is on a card table and we have a camping chair to sit in. Our fridge contains juice, water, and Taco Bell at the moment. We slept on a pile of blankets on the floor, but we are HAPPY. Heck, I'm getting ready to go take a walk out to the mall and grab something to eat, as well as visit with the hubby for a few.

If I'm not around much over the next few days, it's because we are settling in and trying not to live like refugees. Yes, I've been listening to Tom Petty. ;)

If I've missed any major U2 news, please LINKETH me to it.
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Getting ready for the move. [Aug. 5th, 2008|03:39 pm]
[mood | busy]
[music |watching GH]

Well, the duplex is ours, and we move in on August 22nd. :) So now I've got plenty of packing, sorting, and cleaning to do.
During some cleaning, I was looking for some paperwork in our safety deposit box, and I decided to see what 'papers' were tucked away for me in a brown envelope my mother gave me back when I picked up my baptism certificate (I needed it for Clinton's own baptism). I found obituaries, prayer cards, and thank you cards for the funerals of 3 of my 4 great-grandparents, my childhood immunization record, and some old school records. It gave me the idea to tuck away some copies of things from my Gram's funeral for Clinton to have someday.

I've also joined the One Spirit Book Club, and have ordered what look like some very interesting reads. Thank Adam for my having gone to the library and getting back into my reading. Speaking of my dear Adam, I had a weird U2 dream last night. I actually dreamt about the new lead single. In my dream, U2 was playing as part of the entertainment for the NFL opening weekend (lame, I know.). The song sounded like a cross between Holy Joe and Are You Gonna Wait Forever. I can't remember the lyrics exactly, (of course I knew them in the dream), but the song was about a love lost and then found. So now I'm even more anxious to hear what the new single (and album) sound like...because the song I heard in my dream was nothing short of kick-arse amazing.

What else? Hmm...potty-training with the boy is going extremely slowly. He has next-to-no-interest in actually sitting on his little seat for more than 10 seconds, but loves to wear his pull-ups. The result? Far too many changes and messy clothing. Oh well, I guess this is how it goes, lol. We're going out to the library again tomorrow, but I doubt I'll get more than a book or two, as I won't have time to read them. For now, I'm trying to keep caught up with the goings-on in General Hospital, so I suppose I will end this here. :)
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you said you would wait until the end of the world [Jul. 28th, 2008|09:51 pm]
[mood | aggravated]
[music |my Achtung Baby cd]

Well, we have a place. We just have to put the security deposit down on it to hold it and figure out when we can move in (read as: pay first and last month's rent to get in). However, as our luck would have it, the car doesnt want to cooperate. Like, it didnt even want to start today. Like we need THAT to go wrong right now. It'll prolly mean not paying the internet/phone bill to get it fixed...which means that I may be without internet for a wee bit. *eyeroll*

Oh well, I gotta start packing anyways. Not like I have time to be online. I just better not miss any important U2 news!!
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it's no secret that the stars are falling from the sky [Jul. 22nd, 2008|05:22 pm]
[mood | bouncy]
[music |The Fly playing in my head.]

Well, apartment/duplex hunting is going full-force. We looked at a place today, have an appointment for one tomorrow, and have called about a couple others, as well as adding a couple backup numbers to the list. Whew. I hate moving. (Yeah, I know. We do far too much of it.) I'm blaming the economy for this one. We love this house, but it is not worth my relationship or my happiness to keep it. We're spending every cent we have on keeping the bills paid, and our lives are suffering because of it. So moving to a smaller place (with cheaper rent!!) will benefit us in more than one way. Personally, I'm looking forward to having less to clean and more money to spend on fun things...like the new U2 album in November!

U2...boy are things getting exciting. Rumors abound over on interference, everything from release dates to video shoots and lead singles. I am one happy kitty just sitting and reading the threads. Yes, I lurk. No, I don't care.
For now, mark those calendars for November 18th and cross your fingers!
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A special day worth noting. [Jul. 17th, 2008|09:12 am]
[mood | cheerful]
[music |Drive By Love - AJ (playing in my head lol)]

Three years ago today, I said "I do" in front of the love of my life and four other people (technically five, if you count the child I was carrying!!). It hasn't been the easiest road to travel at times, but I wouldn't have it any other way. I love my husband more now than I did then, and we have come so far in such a short time.  Happy anniversary baby! I love you!!

In other news, the apartment/condo hunt is on. As much as we love this house, it is too big, too costly, and far too much work. Downgrading to a smaller place should make things less stressful on both of us (as well as cutting down the bills a wee bit!).
Last night, we went out to the mall and walked around for the first time in ages. Supper was had at the Chick-Fil-A, and hubby and I each picked up a shirt at Steve & Barry's. It was nice to be able to go out and spend a little bit of money without feeling totally guilty.

Today, we don't really have any special anniversary plans. Mum is taking the boy for an overnighter, so hubby and I will have the night to ourselves. We're going to go look at some rentals in this one neighborhood that is nearby the mall, and more than likely take a trip to the library. The books are due anyways, so we might as well poke around and get a few things. We basically had our anniversary celebration anyways...that was part of the draw of going to Orlando.

Well, the boy is requesting breakfast and his Goofy video, so I think I'll end this here. :)
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Finally back! Relaxed, refreshed, and ready to take on the world. (Sort of) [Jul. 14th, 2008|06:59 pm]
[mood | hopeful]
[music |the boy watching Blue's Clues]

Well, I'm finally back. Had a few bumps in the road, but things are starting to look up.

Hubby and I had a massive blow-out over July 4th weekend. Fought about finances, friends, internet, you name it. Decided we were under far too much stress and we needed to get away. So we made arrangements with the in-laws to take the boy, and he and I headed off to Orlando. It was the first time in our relationship that we'd taken a trip NOT involving family; just the two of us. It was wonderful.
We stayed at a cheap hotel, and enjoyed 3 lovely days in Orlando. Just walking around, talking, and of course, eating. You always eat far too much on a trip, I swear. But it was all good. Pics are up over on both mine and his Myspace for those of you who want to see.

I hope I haven't missed 'too' much, so feel free to drop me one and fill me in. I'll try and catch up on the f-list as well. :)
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temporary internet outage [Jul. 6th, 2008|08:40 pm]
[mood | annoyed]

Hey all. We've been without internet since Thursday (being behind on the bill is not fun). Not sure when I'll be back. Heck, I posted this using the computer at Will's aunt's.

And [info]serena_vox, I emailed you.  *hugs*
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youtube and the f-list [Jun. 30th, 2008|12:29 am]
[mood | accomplished]
[music |Even Flow - Pearl Jam]

 Spent the day on YouTube, digging around for old live performances I had on my laptop before it died. Ended up converting a bunch of things to mp3s for the nano. Long process, but worth it. Now I have more music to listen to on the shuffle. New (old) songs are always good. Things like cover versions on VH1 Rock Honors.

And I discovered the joy of making U2 macros via LolCat. PLEBA is far too much fun lately...I can only imagine the flurry once the new album comes out and we have a tour to look forward to.

Speaking of tour, I has a plan. Well, more like the hubby and I are working on a budget. I can hope and pray that it allots for some U2 tour fun, can't I??

Next weekend (well, Friday) is the 4th, and we're slated to go to Mum & Rick's for a bbq. I feel like I should make something since she's handling the food. Maybe I'll do some kind of dessert. *muses*

I'm catching up on the f-list now, so hopefully everyone had lovely weekends. :)
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Surprises are fun. [Jun. 27th, 2008|02:03 pm]
[mood | accomplished]
[music |Mysterious Ways]

Just an update...since it's been a while.

We took the boy to the library last night; for the first time. He was very excited about a place full of books. But he had a tendency to want to yank ALL of them off the shelves. And he also wasn't very happy about the concept of a "quiet place".  He did manage to come home with 4 dvd and at least 6 books. Makes me such a proud mommy. :)

Oh, and Mel...I got your lovely little surprise. *big grin* A proper thank you will be in the mail tomorrow.

One last note to all my BSB friends: In case you haven't heard, Howie's father Hoke passed away this week. :(
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I hate being broke... [Jun. 20th, 2008|10:26 am]
[mood | cranky]
[music |my PopMart vid.]

First and foremost, let me say that gas prices SUCK. It's costing us more per month in gas than our frickin' car payment. Our car payment is $199/month. (The insurance is $108 a month.) We are spending a MINIMUM of $55 per WEEK in gas; that adds up to a minimum of $220 a month. What's wrong with this picture?? It's not like we even GO anywhere. That's just to go to work and back, and run errands once, maybe twice per week.

Oh, and because of the gas prices, grocery costs have skyrocketed. We used to spend around $250-$300 a month on groceries, and be able to buy not just the essentials, but treats and extra snacks as well. Now, we can barely afford to spend $250 on food, and we buy the absolute bare minimum. The only person eating three times a day in this house is the boy.

And that damned stimulus check? More than half of it went to the car. So now, we have a grand total of $45 to our name until Tuesday, and my phone/internet bill is due MONDAY. *headdesk*

I'm so sick of it. We have had to cut out ALL of our extras. We haven't gone to the movies since U2-3D (and that was the first time we'd gone in over 6 months), we can't even rent movies anymore, and I can't remember the last time Will and I went to a nice, sit-down dinner. If we go out, it's to places like McD's or Taco Bell. And we barely do that.

Hubby and I sat last night, trying to figure out if there's anything else we can eliminate or cut back...and there's not. Not unless we all want to starve, or we want to lose the car/phone/internet. It's disgusting. He's making more money than he ever has, and it's all being sapped. I mean, hell. We keep our house at 79`, so it's not like the a/c runs constantly. At night? I have one little lamp on until we go to bed. We've even taken to only running the dishwasher once a day, and doubling up when we dry clothes. This is all so we can keep the electric bill around the $100 mark. I wouldn't care about a $150 bill if we werent' blowing over $220 a month on gas.

And I know it's not just us...but damn, it sure does feel that way. Especially when friends of ours take off to Key West for a week, my sis takes off to Michigan for a Nascar race last weekend...and we sit here. In the house. Hell, we can't even afford to go to the beach anymore b/c we end up using gas that we need to have for work and errands. In the last month and a half, we've been there ONCE. We used to go every stinkin' week. And the weekly trips to the playground with the boy? Eliminated. Can't afford the gas.

*shakes head* And the hubby wonders why I've started tucking away change in a jar...it's the U2 concert fund for next year. I may get to see ONE show if I start tucking away nickels and dimes now.
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Begging you for mercy... [Jun. 19th, 2008|01:05 pm]
[mood | annoyed]
[music |"Mercy" - Duffy]

A lot has happened over the last few days. [info]serena_vox has melted my brain, courtesy of sending me a Green Day song with Dirnt on lead vocal. *licks lips* Something about bass boys...

Hubby and I got into it last night, for a couple different reasons. We ended up sending the boy to the in-laws for an overnighter. Oh, and we've got a temp roomie until Monday. *points to first statement*
Dyana and her two cats are here until Cindy and Simon get back from their vaca in Key West. Which means we've FOUR cats running around this house. *sigh* Lots of sniffing, swiping, hissing, and growling.

Yesterday did wind up having a couple good points however. I was watching a rerun of Ellen, and wound up discovering a good new song, by this awesome UK chick. It's called "Mercy" and the artist's name is Duffy.
Check it out here: http://www.megaupload.com/?d=E11DLF18
I want her album...you can preview all the songs on it over on her website. http://www.iamduffy.com/
The other good thing ended up being a late night Target run. I wound up with $20 worth of makeup, including a glittery, shiny, hot pink accessory box.

(And I apologize if my links arent working. Just copy/paste.)
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My boy is a total U2-head. [Jun. 14th, 2008|11:11 am]
[mood | amused]
[music |PopMart vid - Discotheque]

He said "Boom-cha" this morning. *grin*

I'm teaching him well...
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Mash Game: Predict Your Future at eSPIN-the-Bottle [Jun. 11th, 2008|02:58 pm]
 
Behold... My Future
  I will marry Adam.  
  After a wild honeymoon, We will settle down in Dublin in our fabulous House.  
  We will have 2 kid(s) together.  
  Our family will zoom around in a blue Eclipse.
  I will spend my days as a singer, and live happily ever after.  
 
whats your future
 
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We've moved!! [Jun. 4th, 2008|09:17 pm]
[mood | accomplished]

Hey all! We moved! We are in the same neighborhood, just a few streets over. We have a gorgeous 3 bed, 2 bath, split-floor plan ranch-style house. Email me for the new address: sugarmuffin1572@yahoo.com

Pics will come soon...as soon as the place is set up a wee bit more. Don't want to take pics of our dream home w/boxes all over the floor ;)
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Sick kids kinda tend to zap internet life... [May. 29th, 2008|06:52 pm]
[mood | confused]
[music |my PopMart vid.]

So...f-list. We're still trying to decide whether or not to move outta this place, and if we do move, where we're gonna go. All these adult decisions--I want a cookie and some cartoons, dangit! I've been extremely busy--the boy is still getting over his viral infection, and I am still coughing, courtesy of my head cold. I've mainly chatted up [info]serena_vox with my free time. Trying to help her get settled after her computer crash...which is mainly sending her zipped files of the crap I managed to snag off my laptop before it died.

In other news, I'm trying to figure out the cheapest way to get up to Cleveland the weekend of October 3rd. My sis wants to take me to see the New Kids on The Block when they play at the Q. They're playing here in Tampa at the Forum in November, so that might be a back-up plan, as we're going to have JUST gone to Ohio for the week of Sept. 14th. (Ya'll can quit snickering anytime.) We never got to see them when we were kids, so we're gonna try our damnest to be able to be there for this one. And the hubby is actually supporting the idea! He said we can try and find a way to get me back up there, since my sis is covering the cost of the concert ticket. Whatever good fairy blessed him, I thank you!

Oh, and I shot a mini-video of the boy being absolutely adorable the other day...he's taken to banging along on his little xylophone/piano toy whenever he watches a U2 dvd and "New Year's Day" comes on. Yes, he's trying to imitate our dear Reg. *mini-squee* The hubby is beyond amused, and I am a proud, proud mama. (He also tries to sing along, 'play' other songs, and has started mimicking Bono's "Fly" entrance at the beginning of the Zoo dvd.) Hopefully I can get YouTube to cooperate soon and upload it for all of you!
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Week. From. HELL. [May. 24th, 2008|06:15 pm]
[mood | aggravated]
[music |ZooTv dvd]

Well...the last seven days turned my life into a total shambles. We're prolly going to have to move, the boy and I are both sick, and we spent most of the last week without air conditioning. I will explain.

Our a/c quit working last Thursday. Hubby and I call the landlord on Friday, leave him a message. I stay in the hot house all day Friday, figuring a repair guy will be out. (I send the boy off with the in-laws.) Nothing happens. Will calls again Saturday, leaves ANOTHER message. Mum takes me and the boy out for supper and drops us off at aunt's house so we can get out of the hot house (which is averaging 85+ degrees). Landlord shows up at mall, talks to hubby, claims he's "working on it".

Sunday morning. Landlord calls...gives us the number for the a/c repair company he uses, and tells us it's "your problem now". We call the a/c people, leave a message, and proceed to pack up and spend the day at a hotel, rather than sit and roast in the now 90 degree house. Monday, we check out upon getting a voicemail from the a/c company that they will be out to repair the a/c unit that morning.

They show up. They find the problem (a part has gone bad, nothing too major), they replace the part, and then call the landlord to arrange payment. The landlord REFUSES payment, because he wants to dispute a $189 labor/service bill...so the a/c company REMOVES the part, packs up, and leaves. We hear this from the a/c repair guy...the landlord NEVER CALLS. We pack bags and go back to the hotel...which in turn, causes hubby to have to go in two hours late to work. (Keep in mind, that according to FL law, the landlord HAS to fix the a/c...it's no different than him refusing us heat, water, or electricity...)

Tuesday morning. Hubby and I have spent half the night awake, discussing our next move, as we can't just spend $100 a night on hotels, etc. We check out of hotel, go back to oven-known-as-our-house. Still have not heard from landlord. We start looking online and in the phone book, get ahold of an attorney. He can squeeze us in that afternoon. Hubby calls off work, and I ask in-laws to watch the boy, as he has come down with a 100 degree fever. We go talk to the attorney, he decides to fax the landlord a letter at his place of business, as well as mail out a hard copy. We pick the boy up and go back to the oven...which has only cooled down to 80 degrees, and that is because of rain.

Wednesday morning. We decide to fix the a/c ourselves if need be, and go after the landlord for it in court, as we can't live this way. Boy is still running fever, won't eat, barely sleeps, etc. I cancel my doc's appt, and we make one with the pediatrician instead. In the meantime, landlord has the BOLLOCKS to finally call. Hubby chews him a new arsehole, beating me to it. I grab the phone from him mid-expletive, and kindly inform the landlord that he is not to call either of us, show up at the house, or show up where hubby works. He is to deal with our attorney. I hang up on him, and we proceed with our day. A/C repair people show up again, but hubby and I don't hold our breath. We take boy to doctor's, and he is diagnosed with a viral infection. Doc says it may not have been caused by the heat, but living in that environment certainly didn't help matters, and he'll be better in about a week.

We go home late Wed. afternoon, to find that FINALLY, the a/c works again. Thinking the worst is over, we start nosing around the neighborhood, looking at houses, b/c we're not sure we want to deal with this landlord again.

Wrong. I wake up sick Thursday morning. Try to care for sick child, whose fever is finally going away, and struggle to find cold/allergy pill that will help me breathe. No better yesterday, but the boy started to show signs of improvement. Mum comes to take him and give me a break...and hubby got to come home early, which helped.

I'm finally starting to be able to breathe today...but odds are we'll be stuck moving, as this landlord is giving us more hell. Boy is all but well, he's just picky about what he'll eat b/c of the sores in the back of his mouth. I sound hoarse, due to the drainage and the cough associated with it. And to top it ALL off...my monthly friend has arrived, complete with cramps.

Oh, and I couldn't even vent to [info]serena_vox until today, because her computer decided to do what mine did and go kerplooey on her this week. So she and I have both been miserable. I did get to talk to her today, thank Adam. *snuggles* I have MISSED you so freakin' much!!!!

That should explain why I haven't posted or commented all week. *sigh* Hopefully I didn't miss anything 'too' important.
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Mother's Day and the beach. [May. 13th, 2008|03:16 pm]
[mood | calm]
[music |watching GH]

Well, I hope all the mommies (and mommies-to-be) had a lovely Mother's Day. I had a pretty quiet one...the boy gave me a card and a Webkins puppy, which was adorable. Hubby had taken me to dinner Friday evening, and that was nice. We rarely get to go out and enjoy a nice dinner alone! The in-laws dropped by as well on Sunday, and Mum gave me an Enchanted Orchid gift basket from Bath & Body Works.

Monday, Cindy and I took a "moms' morning off". We left the husbands and my boy at home (her son was in school), and us two girls headed out to Siesta Beach. It was nice to enjoy a morning of sun, sand, and girl talk. I posted a handful of pics from the beach up on my MySpace, if anyone is interested.

Other than that, nothing exciting here. We went to the grocery this morning, picked up a few odds and events. The boy picked out a apple, a box of cheese crackers (his new favorite snack), and got a box of Barnum's Animal Crackers for being so good.

Hubby is headed to Subway again starting tomorrow evening, so the boy and I are going to spend his 3 hr shift at the mall.
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Birthday Boy! [May. 10th, 2008|12:10 pm]
[mood | amused]
[music |City of Blinding Lights - Chicago dvd]

It's Bono's birthday today, and the amazingly talented [info]serena_vox has posted plenty of Bono goodies for all of us fangirls over at http://community.livejournal.com/inspired_hope/15113.html . Leave her lots of love and try not to drool 'too' much on the Bono!

*grins* Happy Birthday Bono!
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